my little boy is about 4 1/2 months old now...he's a really slow bonder..he reconizes the sound of my voice and he lets me pet him while he's in his pouch...i had him in the tent and he explored for a little bit but then went right back into his pouch...he loves it and thats fine with me, but i would love to be able to hold him...i'm just wondering if theres anything else i can do